Saturday, January 30, 2021

Baby, it's cold outside!

It's a quiet Saturday morning here.  We're still amazed by the fact that Dick has off work every Saturday now.  We can stay up to watch a movie on Friday nights, because there's no reason to get up early the next morning.  Last evening we watched Green Fried Tomatoes.  First time I've ever watched it the whole way through.  So many emotions!!!  Cicely Tyson, who just passed away, was a beloved character in the movie, which made it even more special to watch now.  


It's been a COLD week around here.  I'm thankful for a warm house, but I know I should force myself to get out there and walk.  I honestly don't know if I have enough warm clothes, haha!  The other day our daughter-in-law Lori was Facetiming with her 84-year-old mother in Long Island as she went for a one-hour walk in 20-degree weather around her neighborhood.  WHAT????  Now I really feel like a sloth!  I'm fifteen years younger than she and cannot imagine doing that.  I have so many aches and pains.  Right now I seem to have a sciatica issue in my right hip and leg.  Ugh.  I'm sitting on a heating pad as I write. 

Here are a few pics from the last few days.

The sunshine on Thursday was so welcome even though it was bitterly cold and windy.



Friday morning's "sunrise."




We've had snow a few times, but it mostly blows away.  They're talking about more coming on Monday I think.




Occasionally I see a bird in the feeder. 




I ended my last post on Wednesday with the update about my sister Betty.  She had been admitted to the hospital that afternoon due to plummeting oxygen levels.  I'm happy to say that she went home yesterday!  Thank you, Lord!  And thank you, all who prayed!  Of course, she and Scott have more recovery ahead, so we continue to pray.


Have a good weekend!





Wednesday, January 27, 2021

Midweek update

Not much happening here this week.  Yesterday was a cloudy, icy day, but this morning there was some pink in the sky.  



Later there was even some bright sunshine streaming into my kitchen, but that did not last long, unfortunately.




Here's what it looked like yesterday morning.




Even more ice as the day went on. 




I was thankful I did not need to drive anywhere. 



This morning my sister-in-law Nancy posted a picture of some of her bookshelves, because apparently today is National Library Shelfie Day.  So I took pictures of some of mine too.  My very favorite authors are Dave and Neta Jackson, and this is a collection of their books that I have read.


I have one whole bookcase almost entirely filled with music.  There's another one that is too messy to show.  The other evening the women's group from GBRV had a meeting via Google Meets.  I joined the meeting on my computer and was embarrassed by the mess behind me.  I told Dick afterward that I need to work on my background, haha!



I was just Facetiming with Destiny and snapped these adorable pictures of Elizer.  Look how he's standing up!  So pleased with himself!








I'm so proud of Destiny.  She is starting to make and sell necklaces and charm bracelets to earn extra income.  Here's her website with pictures and prices.  Maybe you'll find something you like!


Lavish Pearls


The good news from our nephew's family in Minnesota is that the radiation on the tumor on Jen's spine has relieved her pain, with the help of meds, and last evening she was allowed to come home!   They will be consulting with an oncologist closer to home on Friday to plan the next phase of her treatments.  


Please keep praying for my sister Betty who has COVID.  She has been struggling with shortness of breath and also heavy coughing and some anxiety.  She's staying in close touch with her regular doctor and her cardiologist.  It is very discouraging to feel so sick for over a week.  She desperately wants to feel better and be well and is so grateful for all the prayers on her behalf.  Her husband Scott is still not feeling great either.  


UPDATE:  Scott texted this evening that Betty was admitted to the hospital due to plummeting oxygen levels.  He seemed positive about the fact that they said she will be okay and it will probably be for just a day or two.  I PRAY that will be so!!


Thanks for caring!

Sunday, January 24, 2021

Florida birthdays

I don't want this day to pass without telling you about the important birthdays happening.  Today our granddaughter Sophie turned 16!!   SIXTEEN!!!  Sometimes it just feels sad how fast time goes by.  

I knew Lisa was in labor when I went to school that morning in 2005, and I could barely think of anything else as I taught my music classes.  There was no Facebook or even text messaging, so I guess phone calls and emails were the quickest means of communication, and I could not access my email except in the computer lab at school.  Jeremy, who also lived in Florida then, was the one who called to tell me Sophie had been born and that George would be emailing me a picture.  I was amazed that he could email from his phone!  I ran up to the computer lab, opened my email, and there she was!!  Every student in that computer lab heard me scream!!





And now she's this beautiful 16-year-old!  We have not seen her in person since July 2019.  First time ever that we have gone so long between visits.  Of course COVID is the reason.  Thankfully we have more ways to connect than we did when she was born.   She's pictured here with Lisa at a track and field awards banquet.  Wow, I miss her!




Tomorrow is Lisa's birthday!  What a birthday gift she received when Sophie was born!  I ended my last post with a picture of what I looked like at 9 months pregnant.  She was my first born and we were SO ready and eager!!

And here we were on the early morning of January 25, 1974.  I laughed when I looked at this picture and saw Dick wearing a mask in 1974!





She was a beautiful baby, and we were so in love!



Of course we haven't seen her in person either since July 2019, and that is certainly the longest ever in all these 47 years.  I really, really miss her too.  

On a happier note I'll end with a picture from July 2019.  We were at a hotel in Orlando where Lori's conference was being held, and George, Lisa, and Sophie joined us there from Clearwater.  We had the most wonderful few days together!  




Saturday, January 23, 2021

Saturday evening update

I'm having a rather boring Saturday evening, so I'll update here.  It's really cold outside, like 22 degrees and windy, but I stayed inside all day.  I guess that's why I'm feeling a little stir crazy.   We've had snow flurries almost every day this week, but nothing that accumulated.  On Wednesday morning it looked like this outside my front door, but was melted by noon.




On Tuesday evening I watched the memorial in DC for the 400,000 lives that have been lost due to COVID, and I put a candle at my window in honor of them.  Of course, foremost in my mind was my dear stepmother Mary.  Sometimes it still catches me by surprise that she is gone.





My younger sister Betty in New Hampshire now has COVID.   I've been praying so much for her this week and keeping in touch with her every day.  She's had fever and headaches and extreme exhaustion, but thankfully no cough.  Please pray for her if she comes to your mind.  Here's a sweet picture of her and her husband Scott and also one of her with her kids, Isaiah and Merida.  




Dick and I are rejoicing that we now have appointments for our first vaccines on Friday, February 5.  Woohoo!  

Wednesday was the inauguration, and I watched it all and enjoyed it immensely.   I even wore my string of (fake!) pearls for the event.  My sister Rose and I laughed when we realized we were twinning!  (Actually I copied her.)




I was also making a venison stir fry for Anthony and Lori that day and took it over to their place.  I needed gas in my van, so I stopped for gas afterward.  I took pics of these beautiful views from the parking lot - 5:30 pm!!






Thursday morning there was a beautiful sunrise.



 

And then Friday morning I was lazy and took my sunrise picture through a kitchen window.  I kind of liked it that way!




I shared in my last post about our nephew Jonathan Stauffer's wife Jennifer's pancreatic cancer diagnosis.  The radiation on the tumor on her spine has been relieving pain and pressure.  This weekend she is allowed to be in a hotel next door to the hospital, and her family is with her.  This is a picture of them last evening.  It is so wonderful to think of them being together after their world was turned upside down last Wednesday.   Please continue to pray for her and for all the family.  




Here are some yummy pictures of Elizer from this week. 




Love those rolls!



 

Destiny told such a cute story last night.  Elizer woke up late evening and she was nursing him back to sleep on their bed.  She said he was squirming and passing gas and grunting, and she figured he was pooping, so she decided to wait a bit to check his diaper to give him time to finish.  So she started scrolling FB on her phone. Then he started kicking and scooting himself up and up and reached for her arm.  She looked down at him and he was trying soooo hard to see her phone screen, hahaha!!  She tried not to laugh and wake him up further, but she just couldn't help it, and then he started laughing too.  So much for getting him back to sleep soon!  I think he was looking for me on her phone screen, haha! Acting too big for his britches already!

Over in Sweden they are getting so much snow!!  Yes, it's Sweden, but they're getting one big snowfall after the next this month.  Here Miki is standing in front of an enormous snowbank!!



We have some important birthdays coming up in the next few days.  I'll post about them tomorrow.  But this is what I looked like at this time in 1974!


Have a wonderful Sunday!  We are still having just essential personnel at our GBRV services, which includes me at the piano and Dick making the video for YouTube.  I really, really miss seeing everyone else.  But our congregation has mostly people over 50, and of course Pastor Lynn is getting chemo treatments every three weeks, so I don't see anything changing the way we do it for a while.  

Lord, hear our cries!  

Tuesday, January 19, 2021

A week's worth of stories

I try to update here at least once a week, but on Sunday afternoon, when a week was up, and I knew I should sit here and do this, I got another idea instead.  You'll see what that was later.  


So I'll go back to last Monday (the 11th) when we had the most incredible sunrise!  




So this is what I look like on a day like this when I don't need to go anywhere and I have work to do at the computer, like updating this blog.  No contacts or make up.  I'm always chilly if I'm not moving around, so my cozy robe and prayer shawl feel really good.  I even have a big heat pad/massager on the back of the computer chair.  Of course I have to get up and walk around every now and then, or my hips get too stiff to stand up straight.  What an old lady I have become. 





A project I worked on last week was organizing my recipes.  I have many of them saved in my phone and computer, but I still prefer to have a printed version to look at while cooking.  I have a couple of three-ring binders in which I keep the ones I use most often, but sometimes I pull them out (like when I go to Lisa's or Jeremy's) and they never are put back in.  My recipe organization has been in complete disarray for a year or more, and sometimes I didn't have the patience to look for what I wanted, so I would just go to google or my saved online documents and print them again.  So finally I took the time to organize them all in alphabetical order.  I even discovered that I had an extra set of alphabetical tabs, which I use in my musicians' notebooks.  


In the process of doing that I discovered recipes I had forgotten about.  So on Wednesday I tried one for us and for Anthony and Lori - Baked Lentils with Cheese.  When I was pregnant with Anthony I bought the More with Less Cookbook.  It had lots of recipes with cultural variety that were new to me.  I decided to make two new recipes per week, and each week I would buy one or two new herbs and spices that I had never used before.  The lentils recipe was one that we all really liked through the years, even the kids.  So it was fun to find that recipe and make it again.  I wasn't sure Anthony and Lori's boys would like it, so I also made Chicken Nuggets, another recipe I had forgotten about.  


That evening, after taking dinner over to Anthony and Lori's, I could see a beautiful sunset in my rear view mirror, and it was driving me crazy that I couldn't get a picture of it.  I was on a narrow country road with no place to pull over.  I finally got to a gas station on hill, so i parked and got this picture before the sunset disappeared.  




In my FB memories last week was a picture I had posted of me playing piano when I was around twelve years old.  I decided to take a screen shot from one of our church videos to make this collage.  Pretty much the only thing that hasn't changed is my love for playing piano.  I think I was pounding out a Rudy Atwood arrangement of Onward Christian Soldiers when I was twelve.  My mom just loved it.  When I discovered his hymn arrangements, I was smitten and challenged, and worked on one after the next.  The arthritis in my hands now would not allow me to do all that octave playing that were in his arrangements.  But I have fun trying them once in a while.  




On Saturday Dick and I took a leisurely day trip.  He wanted to pick up something (hunting related, of course!) from his brother Fred in Manheim. That's a two-and-a-half hour trip normally.  But we mosied along like old people.  We had no schedule and it was a beautiful day.  These were the trees on Seven Mountains, the big mountain we always cross when leaving State College for Lancaster County.  (I think the glare through my window created the unusual swirly appearance in the sky.)




When we crossed the mountain we noticed that there was no more white.  I got this interesting shot of the gorge.  You can see there was white on the mountains on the north side only.  




We decided to take our good old time and take some less traveled roads.  Instead of taking the bypasses around the city of Harrisburg, we went right down Front Street.  It was a sunny day, and the Susquehanna River was absolutely beautiful.  For a while we parked at the Fort Hunter Park and Mansion, looking across the river where we knew that Riverfront Bar and Grill, the place we enjoyed eating outdoors with Sam and the kids several times, was.  How we wished for binoculars!  We had fun watching a train cross the river.








After getting through Harrisburg we took the old Route 230 all the way to Mount Joy, seeing places we hadn't seen in years.  It was so much fun.  

When we got to Manheim we stopped first of all at Fred and Deb's place, then we drove into town and passed by places of interest to us.  First of all we passed this house on Snyder Street.  When my dad married Mary in 1983 they each sold their own homes and bought this bi-level together.  My youngest sister Rose was 19, and Mary's youngest son Gary was 16, and they both lived here with Dad and Mary. There was a huge vegetable garden in the back.  I got tears as I looked at this house and remembered the many wonderful times there.




Then we passed  1. the nearby house where my childhood family doctor, Charles Weaver, had his office on Heintzelman Street (top left).   2. The house on the top right in on S. Linden Street.  In 1995 we put our big farmhouse up for sale so we could buy this house in town.  It needed a lot of TLC, but I was tired of hauling all my athletic teen boys back and forth to school and practices, and I thought living in town would be the perfect solution so they could walk.  We put a bid on the house, it was accepted contingent on the sale of our place, and I was already redoing that whole house in my dreams, when a rich young whippersnapper came along and offered CASH.  I was devastated.  In hindsight, it was definitely God saying "no."  We did not know that within a year Dick would be diagnosed with cancer, and our journey would have some surprises.  3. The place on the bottom left is the former Danner Home, which is now being refurbished into a much-needed women's shelter by some of the Mennonite churches in the Manheim area.  Deb had just been telling us about it when we stopped at their place.  4. And on the bottom is the little row home on S. Hazel Street which my brother Dick and his wife Nancy owned and lived in for a few years.  



Then we headed back toward home.  We wanted to see Sammy and Bianca in Duncannon on our way back.  Sam was away watching football, and the kids were at Jenn's.  But Bianca was out shopping with Jenn's sister and aunt, so when we got to her place we offered to take Sammy to Old Sledworks, the big antique/flea market place in town.  He was ecstatic!  Jenn had just taken the kids there that morning, but he did not care!  He would probably be happy to live there, haha!  He wanted to show me EVERYTHING!  





I would love to have enough time to pick out a few smaller Corningware baking dishes sometime, but Sammy kept me from lingering.  There was SO MUCH to see!   I used to have green glasses like the ones in the bottom photo.  





I had told him I would buy him something.  Out of all the stuff there, the only thing he wanted was this old Oregon license plate, haha!!  I told him he would make Jeremy and Mike proud!



Now, to the reason I did not get this blog updated on Sunday afternoon.  It was Austin's 12th birthday, and I decided to make some whoopie pies for him.  I probably had not made these in thirty years!!  I remember the one and only time I made them I had decided afterward that for all that work, and then getting only half as many cookies when pairing them together, they weren't worth my time.  But Austin loves them a lot.  And just on Saturday Sammy and I had been talking about whoopie pies, so I made some.  I didn't have time to look through all my cookbooks to find a recipe that I might have used back then, so I googled.  Martha Stewart's filling recipe called for marshmallow creme, which I never have in my house.  So I tried melting some marshmallows instead.  NOT THE SAME!  But I persisted with the sticky mess.  I hope he liked them!



We went over to their place early evening to give him his card, gift, and whoopie pies.   We had a cold, but fun porch visit.  This is the precious face I fell in love with twelve years ago, the one that wooed me to State College when offered the job of being his nanny.  And now he's TWELVE!!  One year shy of being a teenager.  I'm SO EAGER to get our COVID vaccinations so we can spend more time together.  I hope he still likes to play Scrabble.  A year ago he was beating the pants off of me in my very favorite game!





We had not been seeing any birds at all for a month or two.  A friend in this area, who had posted a picture of FOUR cardinals in one shot, told me about the bird food she gets at a local pet supply store, Wiscoys.  So last week I got some.  The lady there told me to scatter some on the ground around the birdhouse/feeder to attract birds, so I have been doing that.  Finally on Sunday and Monday I have seen this bird.  A friend told us it is a slate-colored Junko, a migratory bird from Canada.  I hope we'll soon see more.  I would so love to have some cardinals.  Well maybe not.  I remember a cardinal at our farmhouse years ago that would fly straight into the window over and over and over again, day after day after day,  till we almost went crazy.   That would not be a fun thing to hear on our sliding glass door!



This has been a very sad week in the Stauffer family.  Our nephew Jonathan Stauffer's wife Jennifer has been having severe back pain, becoming excruciating the last month.  Last Wednesday they went to get some scans done and she was immediately taken by ambulance to a bigger hospital in Duluth (they live in northwestern Minnesota).   Her back was broken in two places due to the pressure of a tumor that was growing there.  They also found a tumor on her pancreas.  She has been diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer.  They have been doing radiation on the tumor on her spine to keep her from paralysis.  Then they will start a regiment of chemo.  Due to COVID restrictions, no one was allowed to be with her in the hospital three hours from home!!!   But on Sunday Jon was granted special permission, and they were together for six hours, and it was then that the hard news of her diagnosis and grim outlook were given.  Our hearts are so broken for them.  Jon's dad is Dick's brother Bob.  This is a picture of Jon and Jen and their four children.  Please pray for them!  There is a Caring Bridge page started (Jennifer Stauffer) and also a GoFundMe page.  



Of course I MUST finish with pictures of my favorite baby boy!  He's growing up toooo fast!  He practically sits up by himself already.  Destiny and Alex are living in their rented mobile home now, but there have been issues to hurdle - electrical and plumbing issues, etc, a hole in their air mattress.  But I think things are pretty well taken care of now.   It's been so cold for Florida, but finally this week it will be warming up for them.   I have so much fun Facetiming with them.  




Elizer turned five months old yesterday!  It was nice she had off work for Martin Luther King Day.  The two pics on the right are ones I took when we were Facetiming yesterday.  He just loves to watch me on Destiny's phone!



Well, congratulations if you made it all the way to the end!  I promise I will try to update more often so it doesn't get so long.  


Praying for a peaceful inauguration ceremony tomorrow!