Wednesday, August 09, 2017

Porch painting, a reunion, more zucchini recipes, grandchildren

Wow, these weeks just fly by!  I'll start this post with a picture I took yesterday as I had my first cup of coffee on our side porch.  I found myself singing a beloved song from the 90's, "I lift my eyes up to the mountains where does my help come from.  My help comes from You, maker of heaven, creator of the earth."

I decided to look it up on YouTube and was delighted to find it!

Last week I was eager to get beyond my "regular" work on Wednesday (cooking for Anthony and Lori and the Houserville/Mt. Nittany Wednesday evening service) so I could do some "fun" work on Thursday.  I think it was four years ago that I first put stain on our side porch floor, and by now it was really needing a touch-up.

I went to Dick's shed to find my brushes and the paint that had been left over.  Wow, it was really lumpy and thick.  I googled what to do about lumpy paint and found out you can strain it!  Of course it is latex and washes easily, so I pulled out my strainer and poured that paint through it!  And it worked!  I added some water and was good to go!  When I posted this picture on FB, someone thought it was chocolate pudding and another person thought it was spaghetti sauce, LOL! (The yellow blotches are just the sun shining on it.)

It turned out to be quite hot and sunny, and as I got to the edge of the porch and the steps I could feel my cowlick getting sunburned, haha!!  So I went inside in search of a hat.  Aha!!  I had forgotten that I have this cool hat from our visit to Cozumel two years ago.

I was pleased with my work, if I do say so myself!



I still had some paint left, so I decided to paint the never-before-painted door to our "basement."

Now it kind of sticks out like a sore thumb, but it's better than before, trust me.  I want to paint the cement block foundation.  I'm thinking about matching the now-tan shutters maybe.  Any ideas?  Or should I go with the rust/red?  As I walked around our neighborhood the other week and down the street behind us I was horrified at what the people living below us had to look at when looking at the back of our house.  Since I never have to look at it, it didn't bother me!

On Thursday evening I had a practice with my Fillmore flute and clarinet players for a special we would be doing Sunday morning.  On Friday I cooked for Anthony and Lori and packed for overnight.

I met Dick at his shop at 5 and we headed toward Lebanon.  We were going to Sam and Jenn's overnight, but we had an important stop to make on the way there.  Jenn is away for the entire month at a training for her military job, and the kids had been at her mom's for two days.  We picked them up on our way.  As we drove I told them to say hi to mama so I could send her a picture.

Sammy and I made peanut butter rice krispie treats together that evening.  We also spent a lot of time looking through the children's cookbooks they have.  Next week Sam and the kids will be here and I told him we'll make some things from his cookbooks.

As I mentioned before, Ray is temporarily staying at Sam and Jenn's since he got his new job in PA.  Thyda will be finished with the Navy and moving up at the end of this month.  They have an apartment in Lebanon that they'll be moving into.  Quite a downsize from the town home they have in Norfolk, but leaving the Navy is a huge transition.  We're praying that her job search will result in a good fit for them.

Anyway, she arrived later Friday evening with Leo, having driven six hours from Norfolk without stopping once!!!  You can probably guess which room she went to immediately upon entering the house, hahaha!!

Here's a picture I took of them the next morning before she left for a hair appointment.

And then because Ray is Ray, he grabbed a picture lying on the buffet and said, "Here, take a picture of this!"  It was a picture of Sam when he was a kid, hahahahaha!  He could almost pass for their child, right?  LOL!!


Dick and I made pancakes and bacon for everyone Saturday morning.  Sammy prefers his pancakes as finger food.  Actually, I do too.  Wrap them around a piece of bacon or sausage.  No syrup needed, especially if there are chocolate chips in them.  Yum!

Bianca was hunting for one of her stuffed animals, so we went to her bedroom to look.  She has a huge walk-in closet that they have turned into a playroom.  When she opened the door she discovered her care bears.  She forgot all about the one we were looking for.

Sammy has another new hobby - sanding.  He loves his sanding block, and was proud of how smooth the end of his stick was.

The kids were really in the mood for books this time.  We spent a good bit of time both Friday evening and Saturday morning with books.  They love the kind of books in which you need to search for things.



When we left around 11:00, Ray was on the couch with Sammy and a book.  Sam was on the chaise with Bianca and a book.  Loved it!



Dick and I had a Stauffer reunion to go to.  The big one that's held just once every five years.  Dick's dad's siblings and cousins and their offspring.  On our way we stopped at Divine Swine near Lebanon to buy some pulled pork and cole slaw to take along.  Then I thought we needed to bring our own place settings and serving spoons, so we stopped at a Weis Markets to buy a bunch of stuff I already have at home, but had not brought along.  Only to discover when we got to the reunion that we didn't need to bring our own stuff after all.  Ugh.

Before we ate, Dick's dad's cousin Glenn gathered everyone together for some history and story telling.  It was actually really interesting to hear the historical details that we had not heard before.



Cousin Dave Stauffer's wife told us about this family tree she has made that shows how she and her husband are 3rd cousins - a fact they did not know until they were engaged!

Glenn told us about this crossword puzzle family tree quilt.  He has made one for each of his nine grandchildren!

Dick's dad (92) is here with his sister Helen (on the right) who is just a few years younger than he, and his older brother Clarence's wife Grace (95!)  Clarence just passed away two years ago.  Dick definitely has longevity in his family tree! In fact, Emma, the mother of Dad and his siblings lived to be 101!!

These were the members present from the Henry and Emma Stauffer family (Dick's grandparents.)

Sister-in-law Deb Stauffer was chatting with Dad's cousin Elam.  Elam's dad was killed in an accident when Elam was just 9 years old.  As was common in those days, when widows could not care and provide for all their children, they were taken in by family.  In Elam's case,  he was taken in by Dick's young parents (about the time Dick, their first child, was born.)  He lived with them until he went away to college.  Elam and his late wife Doris spent their lives as missionaries in Central and South America.  They have two fantastic adult children whom they adopted from Equador.  He came all the way from Columbus, Ohio for this reunion.

These three guys are the sons of another Elam Stauffer - Grandpa Henry's brother Elam.  However, they are our age.  Their father Elam and his first wife were some of the very first missionaries that our Mennonite church sent to Africa in the 1930's.  His wife died in Africa and he later married again and had three sons, Philip (actually born on the same day as Dick!), Ken, and Bruce.  I knew them when I went to Lancaster Mennonite to high school.  One of them came from New Jersey for this reunion!

I was sorry I could not stay to talk with more people.  But I had another appointment to go to.  My nephew's wife Christy works at an optical place in Lancaster called Modern Eyes, owned by her brother and two of his classmates, all graduates of Manheim Central.  I have heard so much good stuff about them and often wished I could go there for an eye appointment and new glasses.  Last week I saw on FB that they had added six appointments to their Saturday schedule due to back-to-school demand.  So I immediately called and got a 2:30 appointment.  I have been told that I have cataracts and that whenever I have surgery my eye prescription will likely change.  So I have not gotten new glasses for 13 years!!  The only time I wear glasses is when I take my contacts out at night, so it's not that big a deal.  Unless, heaven forbid, something would go wrong with my eyes and I would not be able to wear my contacts and would have to wear my 13-year-old glasses in public!!  But they were EXPENSIVE even thirteen years ago and I have not wanted to spend hundreds of dollars on a pair of glasses only to have my prescription change soon thereafter.  So I wanted to have my eyes evaluated by someone I was sure I could trust.

When I walked into their place of business I was greeted by one of the guys with, "So you're Howard's daughter-in-law?"  I had forgotten to remove my name tag from the reunion!!  That was the joke of the day the whole time I was there!  Even when I left they told me to say hi to Howard from them!  I was happy to find out that my cataracts are still very small and I most likely would not need surgery on them for maybe five years.  So I will definitely go back to pick out new frames at some point.  They were closing when I was finished with my exam on Saturday, so I didn't have time to do that then.

I went to Dad Stauffer's then, which is where Dick was.  He had taken a nap after the reunion.  Cousin Elam was also there, so we visited for a while, then we went back to Sam's.  Ray and Thyda were there and we decided to get Chinese takeout.  Yummy!!!  Mine was fried rice and sweet and sour chicken.  Then we hit the road for home.

On Sunday afternoon we babysat Hunter.  He took a nap for over two hours and so did I!!  One of those naps that I had a hard time recovering from the entire rest of the day!  

Here are some adorable pics I took.  They can't be anything but adorable, can they?



After I woke up I made a recipe Peg had sent me to use up more of her zucchinis that I had in the fridge.  Zucchini Blueberry Muffins.  They were really good - very moist and not overly sweet.  They called for unsweetened applesauce, which we always have on hand.

In the evening we had our first fire on Anthony and Lori's new crushed stone patio.  No more mud or sloping toward the hill!  The weather was perfect for a fire.

Hunter was mowing the yard!

He kept trying and trying to seat himself on this stool.  It was both scary and hilarious to watch, because he would climb on top of it first and then try to twist himself around into a seated position, which was hard to to without falling off.  But I think he got it down after enough attempts at it!

Lori got him this chair at Sam's Club on Saturday for $20!!  She thought it would make a perfect birthday gift for Bianca.  But when Dick went there on Monday they had none left.  Online they cost anywhere from 45-65 bucks!  Apparently they had a special sale on Saturday and Lori just happened to be there at the right place at the right time.

Sorry, no picture of Austin that evening.  They have made a new playroom in the basement right next to the patio, and he and his cousin Will were in there a lot of the evening playing a car race game.

There was a beautiful sunset before we left.  We took Will home, then hit the grocery store on our way home.


On Monday I cooked for Anthony and Lori and also cleaned and prepped their airbnb apartment for the next people who would arrive later in the day.    My piano students were on vacation this week, so I didn't have those lessons as I usually do on Monday evenings.

At home that evening I made yet another zucchini recipe - a quiche.    It was delicious.

Yesterday (Tuesday) I worked on music prep for both churches all day long.  In the evening Dick washed this side of our house, and once again the light-colored paint on the shutters washed right off. Have you ever heard of such a thing?  Now you can really see the difference when you look at the shutter at the front window still waiting to be "unveiled."   I'm so thankful we discovered this before I went to the work of painting those shutters!  This is way easier and less expensive!

Out in Portland Martha is in a skilled nursing facility once again.  Often the pain medication causes her to be asleep, but she does have wakeful times too.  I had sent her a card and some pictures last week and she texted me after she received them.  Jeremy also got big pictures made to hang in her room to look at from her bed.  How very sweet of him.  The lower group picture is from our 2015 Thanksgiving at Anthony and Lori's when Martha was with us.  That's a good memory for sure.  This is a very hard time for all of them and my heart is aching.


And one last picture - look who is turning three today!  Miss Bianca Marie!  We'll celebrate her birthday on Saturday at Jenn's parents' house.  (And Jenn will not be able to be there. )-:   I still gotta figure out what to get for her, since that chair idea isn't going to happen.  

Whew, this took way too much time, but it's one of my weekly jobs, haha!  Somebody has to write down  everything for posterity, right??




Tuesday, August 01, 2017

Music practices, zucchini, Sunday fun, my regular work week

Well, it's August 1st.  I can't say I'm enthused about that.  But at least it's still summer and I plan to enjoy every moment of it!

Last week I had a music practice both Thursday and Friday evenings.  Fillmore's Sunday morning service was going to be held at one of the other locations (more about that later), so our band had to get together Thursday evening to figure out where each person would stand, etc.  It was actually the first time the four of us were together since early June!  Every Sunday since then at least one of us was missing!  So it was fun to be all together.

The reason the service was held at a different location is because we're going through an experimental period the next few months.  There are three locations, none of them full on a Sunday morning.  Over winter the cost of heating the three old buildings is ridiculous, and now that there is a drive to raise funds for a new building (the land has been purchased), it will make sense to save money by meeting in one location when cold weather comes.  We'll have an 8:15 service and a 10:45 service with Sunday School at 9:30.   So for now, we're trying that format once a month to work out the "bugs."   I will be pianist/choir director for the 8:15 service, just as I already am.  I'm not sure if I ever mentioned that the new name of the three combined churches is Greater Buffalo Run Valley UMC, GBRV for short.  That just rolls right off the tongue, right?  LOL!!!  At some point I will have to switch from saying Fillmore to GBRV.  So I'm warning you now, haha!

On Friday evening I had another practice with two teens who were doing the special song for the 8:15 service.  They are a brother and sister who attend one of the other locations.  He plays sax and she plays flute.  We did an arrangement of Morning Has Broken.  They play in the band at school but not in church, so it was my delight to give them that opportunity.  

When I came home from that practice I made zucchini bread.  My friend Peg is on a month-long vacation and asked us to pick her tomatoes and zucchini.  There were no tomatoes ripe yet, but the zucchini - OH MY GOODNESS!!   At least TEN huge ones!!  I sliced or shredded two of them and took the rest to the church office for whomever could use them.  On Saturday I made a pan of layered zucchini, which we love.  It's very much like lasagna, except the zucchini replaces the pasta.  So it's really healthy too.  But it makes a whole pan, so we're still eating that!  I found another recipe for zucchini quiche, and of course there's always the delicious chocolate chip zucchini cake.  But who will eat that??  Neither of our waistlines need a pan of sugar, haha!

On Saturday afternoon I had a rather leisurely time shopping for groceries and other things.  I spent too much time at Ross.  I just love that place!!   I tried on a bunch of clothes and shoes, but didn't get any.  Things look so much nicer on the hangers than they do on me.

Saturday evening was delightful, and I sat on the porch to bask in it.  I enjoyed watching the changing  colors of the sky.







I forgot to mention that Dick was helping Anthony to burn scrap wood that afternoon.  They had quite a fire!


On Sunday morning we went to the Valley View church for our 8:15 service.  It was exciting to have people there from the other two locations.  

Lori and the boys were spending the weekend at her parents in New York.  So since we wouldn't be doing anything with them, after church was over Sunday morning we decided to head to Lancaster County to see who we could see.  We hadn't seen Frank's family for a while, so I checked with him as we drove.  They were at J'von's basketball tournament, but would be leaving after the game to go to her mom's for dinner.  However, if they won the game there would be another one at 3.  And they did, and there was!  We were so excited to be getting the chance to see J'von play!  

We had extra time, so we decided to go to the Park City mall outside of Lancaster city.  We reminisced.  Dick was working for a lumber company his first year out of high school, and he remembered delivering lumber to the site where they would be building the mall right in the middle of farmland.   A couple of years later I was working at the retirement home across the street and literally watched it being built before my eyes.  I remember walking over there and seeing the steel skeletons of JC Penney and Watt and Shand.  I went shopping at Penneys the day they opened up.   And a month before our wedding I bought our living room suite at Penneys during my lunch break!

So we in honor of our memories, we went to Penneys!  We don't have a Penneys in our mall here anymore, and I miss it.  I would have loved to walk around more of the mall, but we didn't have that much time.

J'von's tournament was being held at the Thaddeus Stevens Technical School gym.  J'von is the orange #4.  He's good.  The other team was from Maryland.





J'von's team played hard, but the other team won.  J'von's team did come in second in the tournament though, which is great!  But there were no smiles from this player.  He wanted his team to be first!

A cute picture of him with his mom Danielle and little brother Marty.

We were disappointed we missed Frank and Lauren and the girls, however.  Lauren posted this adorable picture taken after the earlier game.  Alaya loves J'von!  He was smiling after that game!


When we left the game we found a parking lot with shade trees and put our seats back for our Sunday naps.

Then we went to Chuck E. Cheese to see our favorite worker.  When we got there Destiny said that she was ready to go around checking all the games and we could follow her around.  They check all the games for malfunctions twice a day and restock the tickets.  How fun is that!  


She challenged Grandpa to play this game with her and she beat him!  Of course, she gets lots more experience!

Unjamming a machine.  It was cute to see all the kids come to her with their questions and problems.  

This cracked me up.  When she was checking the game called Street Hoops she said that some of the balls were missing, that sometimes they get thrown behind the machine.  So she pulled that whole big game front and crawled behind it.  She threw at least four balls out which Dick caught.

Then she climbed out and pushed the game back against the wall again.  She'd obviously done that before!


This was a sketch from one of the photo booths.

When she got off work we took her across the street to Primo to order a sub for her and then took her home.  I'm so happy she has a job this summer, except that it means she can't come up here for a week or two like she always has.  She works five days a week!

From there we went to Manheim where Grandma Mary was at a church picnic.  My sister Mary Ellen had brought her there and we were taking her home.  It was a good way to squeeze in a 30-minute visit with her.  It had been a good weekend for her.  On Saturday she had gone to a picnic at the over-55 community where she used to live.  They were so happy to see her!  They want her to come back to play shuffle board!  The church picnic on Sunday was with the church she had attended for years before she moved to the apartment at her son's place this past winter.  My dad had been the pastor there for many years.  They were happy to see her too.  The ladies were playing a fun game when we got there.  Each person had a paper with 3 things about themselves written on it.  Two were true, one was not.  The others had to guess which one was not true.  Very funny sometimes!

It was too late to stay and visit at her apartment, but we took some pictures. 

Our "goodnight" selfie. 

It was after midnight when we got home.  I drove the last hour so Dick could sleep, since he would have to get up for work in the morning.  

I cooked for Anthony and Lori on Monday and then taught piano lessons.  I was glad to get home and definitely ready to sleep when I went to bed. 

Today I cleaned Anthony and Lori's airbnb studio apartment.  Guests were coming tonight.  I thought it's been a while since I posted any pictures, so here are some I took today.  I can certify that it is CLEAN!  And it is very comfortable to stay there.  We've had many chances to do that.   I'll take you up the steps the way the guests enter it.

The deck at the top of the steps.




There is a fold-out bed in the love seat. 

Queen bed.

And the bathroom.

Have a good rest of the week!